Soul of Islam Radio

After the spiritual intensity and sacred beauty of Ramadan, many of us are left wondering—how do we sustain this light throughout the rest of the year? In this episode, I reflect on the deeper meaning of Ramadan and share four practical commitments to help you carry that divine energy beyond the holy month.



Ramadan is more than a month of ritual fasting; it's a reminder of who we truly are. It reconnects us to God, to our community, and to our higher purpose. But its gifts aren’t meant to fade with Eid. The journey continues. First, continue fasting. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ fasted regularly outside of Ramadan—on Mondays, Thursdays, and during the White Days of each lunar month. Even one day a week can preserve the physical and spiritual benefits we've cultivated.



Second, keep going to the mosque. The masjid is not just a place of prayer—it’s the heart of the faithful community. Regular presence there nurtures connection, unity, and presence in a world that often pulls us toward distraction. Third, keep learning. Ramadan often inspires us to engage with the Qur’an and sacred knowledge. Let that momentum continue. Whether through traditional scholars or spiritual programs like Awakenings Academy, immerse yourself in environments of remembrance and growth.



Finally, awaken in the night. One of Ramadan’s greatest blessings is the sanctity of night worship. Even outside of Ramadan, the last third of the night remains a powerful time for prayer, meditation, and seeking closeness to God. Set aside time before Fajr to reconnect with your soul and your Lord.



These four practices—fasting, prayer in congregation, continual learning, and night awakening—are not just means and methods of strengthening faith during Ramadan. They are a path to lasting spiritual growth. May we carry this light throughout the year, and may it lead us closer to the Divine, to our purpose, and to our true selves.



Ameen.



To your divine and eternal success.



Chapters



00:00 | Ramadan as a Spiritual BootcampA reflection on the spiritual intensity and collective power of the holy month.



00:54 | The Inner and Outer Blessings of FastingExploring the physical and spiritual benefits that fasting offers.



01:47 | The Sorrow at Ramadan’s EndWhy many feel a deep sadness when the month concludes.



02:32 | Reorienting to the HereafterRamadan helps shift our focus from the material world to eternal truth.



03:20 | The Question: How to Maintain MomentumA transition to the four key strategies for spiritual continuity.



04:05 | Commitment #1: Keep FastingPractical tips on weekly and monthly fasting after Ramadan.



06:12 | Commitment #2: Keep Going to the MosqueUnderstanding the mosque as a spiritual anchor throughout the year.



08:48 | Commitment #3: Keep LearningWhy continuous learning is essential for the believer.



10:27 | Commitment #4: Keep AwakeningThe transformative power of night worship and spiritual solitude.



13:35 | Laylatul Qadr and the Pursuit of Sacred TimeWhy every night is an opportunity to connect with the Divine.



14:20 | Summary of the Four CommitmentsA recap of the four strategies to keep Ramadan’s light alive.



15:09 | Closing Reflections and Invitation to ConnectFinal thoughts, a call to action, and gratitude for the community.

In this episode, I sat down with my friend and brother in faith, Jonathan Abdus-Samad Nadeau, for a deep conversation on what it truly means to make religion real. With Ramadan as our backdrop, we explored how Islam isn’t just about outward practices—praying, fasting, attending lectures—but about embodying surrender on the inside. Without this inner submission, our faith risks becoming hollow, disconnected from its purpose.



We spoke about the two dimensions of Islam: the external, which deals with acts of worship, and the internal, which calls us to master the self—our thoughts, emotions, and reactions. As I’ve witnessed time and again, a person can outwardly practice Islam yet still struggle in their personal life if they haven’t developed self-awareness and control. Our conversation centered on this gap and how we can begin to bridge it.



Jonathan shared insights from his background in meditation and spiritual practice, emphasizing the difference between knowing something in the mind and embodying it in reality. We often mistake thinking about change for actually changing. True transformation requires stillness, patience, and repetition—especially in the moments we’re triggered or challenged.



We both returned to the concept of patience, not as passivity, but as the ability to sit with discomfort without reacting. That’s where real growth happens. It’s not about eliminating emotions like anger or fear, but learning how to respond instead of being ruled by them. We explored how emotional reactivity often stems from identifying with the mind, and how freedom comes from creating space between stimulus and response.



I reflected on a personal experience during a hijra journey between Mecca and Medina, where physical pain taught me that surrendering to discomfort actually eases it. That lesson carries into every aspect of life—resistance creates suffering, while acceptance invites peace.



We closed by discussing meditation as a tool for cultivating inner stillness and discipline. It’s not about escaping or achieving something, but simply learning to be—sitting quietly, observing, letting go. It’s through this daily practice that we begin to discipline the self, embody the essence of Islam, and ultimately return to the Divine Presence of Allah Almighty.



This is what it means to make the religion real—moving from form to essence, from surface to depth, from performance to presence.



For those looking to go deeper, I created the Ramadan Success Program to support a more holistic experience of the sacred month, and the Islamic Meditation Program as a practical way to cultivate the inner stillness that anchors real faith.



Chapters



00:00 | The Outer and Inner Dimensions of IslamWe open with a reflection on the dual nature of Islam: outward obedience and inward surrender, and the need to integrate both for a complete spiritual path.



02:31 | Illusions of Practice and the Need for EmbodimentJonathan discusses how spiritual growth requires more than intellectual understanding—it demands embodied experience and real transformation.



07:11 | Making Religion Real: Where It CountsWe explore how faith must be lived in personal life, especially in relationships, where inner growth is truly tested and revealed.



11:28 | Stillness as the Foundation for Self-ControlWe highlight the role of patience and stillness as tools for observing and regulating emotional reactivity.



18:33 | Thoughts, Emotions, and the Illusion of SelfThe conversation turns to the origins of emotions and how disidentifying from thoughts is key to spiritual freedom.



23:03 | Observing Emotions Without Acting on ThemJonathan shares how we can train ourselves to sit with difficult emotions and sensations, breaking the cycle of reactivity.



33:43 | The Power of Acceptance Through PainA personal story from the hijra journey illustrates how surrendering to discomfort dissolves resistance and transforms pain.

In this spiritually grounding episode, we explore the concept of integrity as a state of wholeness—an alignment between our inner truth and outer actions. Drawing from sacred teachings, lived experience, and the wisdom of our predecessors, we reflect on what it means to walk a path of sincerity and growth in a world full of tests and distractions.



We begin by affirming the importance of companionship—suhbah—as the foundation of spiritual development. Our hearts are shaped by those we keep close, and true transformation begins when we seek out and remain in the company of the sincere and truthful. As the Qur’an instructs, we are called to be mindful of God and to align ourselves with those who are trustworthy.



Integrity, we understand, is not just about moral uprightness but about becoming whole. It’s the actualization of knowledge through experience. Like students in the school of life, we are given information, but it is only through tests—through trials and real-life challenges—that knowledge becomes real, embodied, and transformative. As we face hardship, we are not being punished but invited to grow.



Religion, in this view, is a means to fulfill life’s ultimate purpose: to know and draw near to the Divine. This requires overcoming the ego, letting go of the need for control, and surrendering in humility. The path is not easy—the self resists—but it is in this struggle that we find true freedom. When we transcend the self, we awaken the heart, the seat of the spirit, and align with our deeper purpose.



We also recognize the danger of pursuing knowledge without discipline. Without tarbiyah—spiritual training under a guide—knowledge can inflate the ego and lead us astray. True progress requires both learning and purification, both study and self-mastery. In the presence of God, we strive to see ourselves in a state of humility and spiritual poverty, knowing that all goodness flows from Him alone.



This episode is a reminder that our path is not solitary. Growth happens in community, with support, with teachers, and with those committed to truth.



May we continue to walk this path with integrity, sincerity, and a heart open to transformation.

In this episode, we reflect on the divine name of Allah, "Al-Maalik Al-Mulk," meaning the Owner and Sovereign of all creation. Understanding this name deepens our awareness of both God and ourselves, helping us recognize our purpose and the temporary nature of this world. Everything we possess—our wealth, our bodies, even our breath—is not truly ours but a trust from Allah. This realization fosters humility and gratitude, guiding us toward a more meaningful life.



Our attachment to the material world (dunya) often distracts us from spiritual truth. When we become consumed by wealth, status, and worldly success, we risk forgetting our Creator and, in turn, losing ourselves. The prophets, including Jesus (peace be upon him), reminded humanity that gaining the world at the cost of our soul is the ultimate loss. Despite this warning, many still chase fleeting power and possessions, neglecting the eternal reality that awaits beyond this life.



True fulfillment comes from drawing closer to Allah through remembrance (dhikr) and conscious devotion. When we forget God, we become veiled from truth, falling into heedlessness and ingratitude. The prophets set the example of living with sincerity, humility, and gratitude, teaching that our highest honor is in servitude to the Almighty. Following their path is not about mere identification with faith but about embodying their teachings in our actions and choices.



The Quran reminds us that on the Day of Judgment, nothing will benefit us except a sound heart (qalb saleem)—one that is purified and devoted to Allah. No wealth, power, or worldly success will hold value beyond this life. Our challenge is to prioritize what truly matters, preparing for eternity by cultivating faith, gratitude, and righteousness.



As we navigate this world, we must ask ourselves: Are we investing in what will perish or in what will last forever? Through remembrance of Allah, following the prophets, and seeking spiritual growth, we align ourselves with a higher purpose. Our time here is short, and death is inevitable, but belief frees us from the fear of the unknown. A life rooted in faith is a life lived with excellence, preparing us for a noble return to our Creator.

On this episode of Soul of Islam Radio, we explore the significance of the most beloved names to Allah: Abdullah and Abdur-Rahman. These names, meaning “servant of God” and “servant of the Most Merciful,” reflect the highest state of being—one of true devotion and submission to the Creator.



True servitude to Allah is not about restriction but about freedom—freedom from the ego, worldly distractions, and anything that distances us from our divine purpose. The modern world often promotes self-indulgence, urging us to prioritize our own desires. However, the teachings of Islam call us toward humility and self-discipline. Even the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, the most perfected human being, would pray, “O my Lord, do not leave me to myself for even the blink of an eye.” If he sought such protection, how much more do we need it?



Mercy is central to our faith. Allah describes Himself as Ar-Rahman, the Most Merciful, and every human being enters this world under that divine attribute. To be true servants of the Most Merciful, we must embody mercy in our interactions—with our families, communities, and even the environment. Mercy is not just a quality we receive; it is one we must actively cultivate and share.



As Ramadan continues, this is a time for deep reflection and self-improvement. Are we serving Allah, or are we enslaved by our own egos and desires? The ultimate success is not in wealth, status, or personal gratification, but in becoming true servants of Allah, living with sincerity, humility, and mercy.